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Then you are invited to the wedding. Don't believe me? Ask bigstan. I think he's posting to newsgroups.

Due to the nature of the beast - and getting jerked around on wedding sites - we have not really given out wedding invitations.

As for directions, you got me - Just know its at Wildwood Camp & Conference Center;
(513) 831-3242; 941 Barg Salt Run Rd; Milford, OH.

Don't know how good Yahoo Maps are but I find that randmcnally.com is better than Mapquest for directions.

Date: June 7, 2003
Time: 12:30 p.m.


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May. 1st, 2003 09:04 am (UTC)
Um... I can read this :P

May. 1st, 2003 09:15 am (UTC)
Smarty pants
May. 1st, 2003 09:40 am (UTC)
I'll spend my daily does of honesty today.

This morning, the Boy pointed out to me that he noticed that you were no longer allowing non-friends to comment. I told him it was the result of some bad experiences with people and entry information being dispersed without your consent to people who REALLY didn't need to know it.

He nodded along, and asked me if you guys were getting married next week. I quickly corrected him and told him the right date. More nodding along as he drove. He was quiet for a second and then tried to discreetly pry information out of me. Discreet is one of the things he is not. We came to the conclusion (granted, we didn't bother to ask you and that might be a problem) that due to a distinct amount of what boils down to bad blood, that an invite was not in order. We would just send our card and be on our merry way.

I know a lot of what happened in the past is a result of some huge misunderstandings and some things that were just blown out of proportion. In the beginning, we asked BigStan to move out because we wanted to remain friends with him. It's kind of like breaking it off with someone you really want to hang out with, but you don't want to be with. In the end, it turned to people not talking to each other, anonymous email from hell, and a lot of bitterness from most parties involved. It was most certainly not was wanted or even intended by other side in the debaucle.

I also know that I have a particularly bitter past with him. I will fully admit that I did not get along with him when he was living with us. He got on my last nerve. Now, admittedly, I am not the easiest person to get along with, so I probably got on his nerves an equal amount. We just didn't get along living in the same space. It was not my decision to move him out. I had a part in it I wont deny, but it was a decision made by the household after about a month of angsting over it.

Would we get along now that we don't have to share toilets or living space? I don't know. I know that the Boy would at least like his friend back and regardless about how I feel about someone, he has the right to his own friends. If BS and I don't end up getting along in all forums, so be it. I'll wander off and do my own thing. Now I have the option of doing that instead of being in a place where everyone knows every little word you say and you cannot escape that they know more intimate details of your life.

This should have been said a long time ago, but it seems since October, life has been one roller coaster after another. This has been the first time in a long time when I've had time to sit down and think about the many things that have occurred. I am really sorry that things did turn out the way they did, for my part in it, and for the part that caused some people to lose someone they trusted enough to let into their home. I hate to see people be hurtful towards each other, especially when they were once good friends.

Now, if you'll have us, that is your decision and I know both of us would love to watch you two get married.

Now, on to something constructive, like working.

Stupid employers.
May. 1st, 2003 09:41 am (UTC)
May. 1st, 2003 12:20 pm (UTC)
May. 1st, 2003 12:23 pm (UTC)
Ergads I don't know where to even begin! Unfortunately ATM I don't have all that much time at the office to sit down and go into it. I agree with your comment about employers. They get in the way of our social lives. Sigh. What are we to do about this? Revolt if we could. But we like the paychecks too much.

I will address these statements when I get more time. I just wanted you to know I have read them and I will get back with you on them as soon as I can and I'm not ignoring them.
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