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Ahhh Lorie!

Just got the mail. There is a Christmas card from Lorie. LLB has been a dear friend to me since 5th grade. She is so much like a sister like Dita & writanya are.

But we had fallen out of touch. Due to her over- obsessive, controlling, bearing, - whatever he is - husband, who cannot stand to not be the center of her universe. He thinks that he is all she needs and has done his best to cut her off from all friends and even family.

I figured, when she decided to get the hell away from him I would be there. She has always known I am around. I would never leave her.

I try to talk to her once a month if I can. Whenever he is not around. Mostly I call her at work because at least I know that there I will have a moment with her that he is not standing over her shoulder listening.

So anyway, the card reads "It really means a lot to me that you have found the right man! I can tell by the song in your voice that you are happy! & the kids ... their faces tell the whole story when they look at Stan with love! I am really happy for you & I love you :)" Signed Lorie.

Sniffles start.

I cannot wait to share this card with him.

I so much want her to find the right man. She is one of those people who cannot be alone, but who is strong enough to be, yet she does not realize this. I've tried to tell her, show her by her own actions, but until she opens her eyes, she will stay where she is at.

She said to me about Stan "You finally found your Scottish Teddy Bear." LOL - I guess that is exactly what I had been looking for since HS.

She told me last night that she knows she needs to find the strength within herself to walk away from this idiot she is married to. I only agreed.

I stand with her, whatever she decides.

LLB, I love you too.

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perdita_saxon
Dec. 18th, 2003 10:05 am (UTC)
LLB
pack his piddley belongings in a garabage bag and throw him out!

eyes_of_beauty
Dec. 18th, 2003 10:27 am (UTC)
Re: LLB
I figure one day soon I'm just gonna get fed up with it all and tell her she is taking a day off of work, go over there, pack his shit, toss it to the curb, change the locks, take her out with me and let him figure it out when he gets home from work.

Then serve him with divorce papers at his dad's house cause you know he'll run right back to New Miami.
perdita_saxon
Dec. 18th, 2003 10:49 am (UTC)
Re: LLB
Please warn me ahead of time, we gotta get a camcorder.

Hmm, is it so wrong for us to plot the emotional devastation on a friends husband?

What the hell am i saying . . .this is a job custom made for us.
(who said i lost touch with my goth within?)
eyes_of_beauty
Dec. 18th, 2003 12:32 pm (UTC)
Re: LLB
this is a job custom made for us

AMEN Sista!

Cause you know how I get once I'm fed up.
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